Que Sera, Sera

Whatever will be, will be
The future’s not ours, to see
Que Sera, Sera

 

As each day passes on my twisting and winding journey towards point ‘B’ I realise more and more that sometimes shit just happens, and you have to just shrug your shoulders and go ‘fuck it’  because what else are you gonna do? There is NO point freaking out, I mean, be a decent human being and all that, CARE. But don’t sweat the small stuff, or the stuff you can’t control, or the people you can’t control.

Now, without sounding too much like a hippy I do believe that everything happens for a reason, or at the very least most things do. it’s just managing to find that reason that can be challenging! More often that not, if you really think about it, there is a reason why things happen, I refuse to believe that we are all here to aimlessly wander about crashing into each other, or that we are a big science experiment in a giant bathtub…?

Anyways, I digress, what I’m trying to say is that if you simplify things and look at things from a different perspective, then the reasoning is often quite clear. It just may take some time for the reasoning to become apparent.

Let me explain by way of example:

If you cast your mind back a few posts you will remember the Czech date I went on. About a week after the date he was deported back to Czech because he couldn’t renew his passport. Now, if you look at this in the terms I explained above you will see that the reason the date went badly is because A) he had a GF and B) he was going to be deported. Hence the reason we didn’t fall in love, the universe knew I wasn’t ready to fall in love and then have my heart-broken again so soon! Nifty huh!

Thanks for having my back Universe, your my Homeboy!

Que Sera, Sera! xx

Wouldn’t it be Lovely…

To live in a Castle!!

Cloud Castle

Mountain Castle

Sea Castle

German Castle

Random Thoughts…

Due to extremely long hours at work I’ve neglected my poor Blog, and all of you too, sorry!

Here are some stray thoughts that I’ve been stewing for awhile now.

• Moving home totally rules, but leave before you get too comfortable.
• Read books
• Be aware of the world around you/form an opinion
• Your parents are human beings too
• Friends and family will dissapoint and annoy you at some stage, get over it, not everyone thinks the same way you do. Sucks huh!
• Pay your parking tickets
• It’s OK to disagree
• Having great girlfriends is amazing
• Drinking Vodka is the best
• Laughing until your stomach hurts is pure bliss
• Good guy friends are SO cool/make you feel special.
• Eating in bed is super naughty but a nice treat
• You always feel better after a good cry
• Learn to have faith in yourself and your decisions
• Sometimes shit happens, what are you gonna do?
• It would be so sweet if Rob Pattinson was my Boyfriend
• Skins is probably the best TV show ever
• Saturday mornings are the best part of the week
• Make plans, have something to look forward to!
• Friends will leave you to go travelling overseas, but that’s OK, at least you are on the same planet, imagine if they went to Mars or something?!!
• The Killers are probably the best band ever
• Flirting is beyond fun!!
• White sheets are the best, except when you own an evil black cat
• Smile like you mean it
• Walk in bare feet on the grass
• A little humility goes a very long way
• In times of stress, hang in there and look forward to that pivitol moment when you realise that you WILL pull this off
• Swimming is SO fun
• People can be total fuckwits, DON’T be one of them
• IF you were rowing across the River Styx, you should totally look like this:

by Julie Williams

Hope you are all well and happy!

Jecc xx

Dates (The Fruity Kind)

Post Czech Date wrap up:

He was lovely and kind.

He bought the wine, pulled out the chair for me, held the door, poured my wine for me, told me that I was “like Sunshine” and we talked for hours. I had a very very good time.

Turns out he has a girlfriend.

Back to the drawing board.