Merry Christmas!

December 23, 2009

My darlings!

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas!

Dance, be merry, spend time with friends, family and lovers.

Listen to the Pogues and Snoopy’s Christmas Carol!

Make up with people you have fallen out with –  it’s Christmas, there’s never been a better time.

Don’t think about work.

Drink too much, eat moderately, have deep and meaningful’s with your Dad, Mum, Cousin, Uncle, Aunt, Grandmother, Grandfather, Sister, Brother, whoever will listen! Do it!

And most importantly, Be safe.

Love Jecca xx


To my Darling Sister

December 23, 2009

“Sisters annoy, interfere, criticize. Indulge in monumental sulks, in huffs, in snide remarks. Borrow. Break. Monopolize the bathroom. Are always underfoot. But if catastrophe should strike, sisters are there. Defending you against all comers.” – Pam Brown

I Love you.

I went to a wedding on the weekend and Holly was my date.

He was supposed to be my date, but Holly was far more fun, we had a blast, met lots of great people but spent the entire weekend literally as the only single people there.

I have never talked to so many engaged or married people. Ever.

The wedding was beautiful, the Bride was stunning, genuinely stunning and the Groom is absolutely gorgeous, kind and loving. This one is a keeper, something forever, real love. It was really quite special to witness something like that.

The wedding restored most of my faith in the idea of the ‘happy couple’ but didn’t manage to wash away all of my cynicism, it’s still there, but will lessen with time I would imagine.

It made me realise I’m still a bit bruised, still a bit broken, fine most of the time but I can sometimes be caught unawares and then BAM, tears and sadness – usually after the consumption of too much alcohol. People keep telling me not to drink because it heightens your emotions, screw that, who ever went through a difficult time sober? Well, maybe many people do, but that just isn’t me, sorry folks.

A friend told me recently that after a breakup you go through a stage of being a being a bit crazy, I thought he was talking utter bollocks, but I fear he may have been speaking the truth, I mean, who rolls their eyes at a wedding?

Holy Vampire!

December 16, 2009


The ‘Swoon of the day’ award goes to Alexander Skarsgard, he plays the part of Vampire Eric Northman on True Blood.

Swoon #1

Swoon #2

Speechless? Yea, I thought so.

Don’t cook.  Don’t clean.  No man will ever make love to a woman because she waxed the linoleum – “My God, the floor’s immaculate.  Lie down, you hot bitch.” – Joan Rivers

Love Lady Jecca xx

I’m working on being more observant.

I am normally a loud and giggling participant, but I’m trying to be more laid back, trying to sit back a little and see how things unfold, no more rushing in to fix things and fawning over people to make them feel better, I’ll just observe a little, see what happens, who am I to think I can fix/control everything? I’m just a person!

I’m a relatively intuitive/perceptive person and can pick up on most people’s moods easily. I’m terrified of confrontation and aggravation and am luckily always alerted to it – my legs go weak and feel all hollow and my heartbeat quickens – that’s when I know to run for cover! And yes, I know it sounds strange, but it doesn’t fail me often. Does anyone else out there have this? I guess it’s all to do with fight or flight right? Primal urges and all of that, maybe in another life I was an Ostrich, blissfully going through life free of confrontation with my head stuck safely and firmly in the sand.

Eye Candy

December 12, 2009

I’ve had one of those weeks where I have been exhausted. I drag my sorry ass out of bed in the morning, shower and then attempt to get dressed, well mostly I just stare at my clothes knowing that I have to put them on and go to work, but I just can’t.

Anyways, the point I’m trying to make is that it’s been an average week and I don’t feel I have anything to say, so I’m going to be a complete cop-out and just put up some pictures of hot boys/My celebrity crushes.

AND HERE THEY ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(Don’t forget to swoon)

Ian Somerhalder - plays the badass 'Damian' in Vampire Diaries

Luke Pasqualino - Plays 'Freddy' in season 3 of Skins

Rob Pattinson - plays the part of 'my boyfriend' in My life.

If you can listen to this without getting a little emotional, then I admire you!

It’s one of those songs that makes me:

1. Reflect on my year

2. Remember the good times

3. Wonder how Shane MacGowan the lead singer from the Pogues could drink a bottle of whiskey a day

4. Wonder if I could drink a bottle of whiskey a day

5. Feel Christmassy and whimsical

6. Want to get drunk and dance alone in a couture gown, wearing a headband while smoking a cigar and sipping on some delicious Grey Goose. How Faaabulous.

Picture by Tim Walker - he's a genius

Love Jecc xx